Attitude is almost everything. I've always believed this. I once had a BMW 5-series, and I hated it - could never find out why, because it's objectively a good car; till I realized my heart was still with my old Volvo, and there was no space for the BMW in it. And that is how good things can be despised, because one may carry another ideal in one's mind. And that's what intactivist websites seem to do - they implant a negative image where there might not even have been an opinion before. And then guys come away programmed to be on the wrong side of what may well be a neutral issue.
Some people’s opinion one simply cannot change. Mine, for example.