I'm glad that this space has been helpful for you. I went ahead and created the poll as you recommended. Feel free to create others in that space if you have any other questions.
For what it's worth, I was circumcised as an infant in a time and place (Yale Hospital in the 80s) when it was very common. I suppose that I have been "the norm" for most of my girlfriends. I can't remember any of them ever bringing it up. That said, I can assure you that if it wasn't your foreskin, adolescents would have found something to pick on. I remember being afraid to shower during gym classes in middle and high school because I was terrified of being picked on while naked. I don't think that there was even any particular features that I was afraid of being teased for. Adolescent and teenage boys (as well as girls) are just pretty sadistic people in general, and if there's absolutely anything that makes you different, they're going to pick up on it. So I sure as hell wasn't putting myself in the vulnerable position of being naked around these assholes, which meant that for about three years I was the guy that had really bad body odor for the second half of two days each week.
In regards to how someone circumcised at birth that lives in a place that is predominantly populated by circumcised males would develop a fetish for acucullophiliac females, that's somewhat tricky to explain. Ultimately, I think that it's derived from two major sources.
The first is the rise of the uncircumcised male in porn. At least in the U.S., foreskin in porn has skyrocketed over the past decade as the "post-circumcision" generation out West matures, and the importation of European productions become more typical. Although I have nothing against a guy being uncut, it's not something that I like to watch because it imparts a sense of "otherness" that makes it difficult for me to fully engage in the fantasy that I suppose pornography is intended to induce. I don't think that this alone helped me develop an interest in female acucullophiliacs, but my distaste for uncut guys in porn has definitely been snowballing for several years now. Again, this isn't to hate on intact guys out there. I don't feel this way because they're uncircumcised, I feel this way because I am
The second and probably greater factor that lead to this fetish for me was undoubtedly the rise of the Intactivist movement. I don't know if you've read the Slate article "How Circumcision Broke the Internet"
, but I think it does a decent job at detailing how ubiquitous Intactivism has become. If you do a Google search for circumcision+anything, half of the top results will be anti-circumcision. If this was warranted by facts, it would be one thing, but I really don't feel that the research supports the castration complex that this fundamentalist group propagates. Nevertheless, it kind of gets under my skin (mind you, not the one that's probably since been grafted to a burn victim). The word "mutilated" comes up way too frequently. As I express in the About page on my site, I am not an enormous fan of the term "Intact", because of the association it has with the castration of animals.
It's interesting, the other day I was thinking about some drawings and paintings by Picasso that I saw at his museum in Paris. (Brief art history lesson:) In the late 1930s, Hitler made a speech in which he included modern artists in the same company as the Jews and gays. He suggested that the degenerate nature of modern art might be heritable, and recommended the sterilization of the abstract artists. Picasso appears to have responded to this threat with a period in which he retreated slightly from his cubist period to repeatedly depict the Minotaur in consort with a woman. The Minotaur in this context appears to a surrogate for Picasso's own masculinity; a sort of hypersexualized icon of his manhood. It's almost Picasso went through this phase where every day he was telling Hitler "You think you're
the uber-mensch? Piss off."
I'm certainly not comparing this website to the work of one of art's greatest masters, nor has anybody threatened to castrate me. I think that there is a parallel to this story though in my own life. I suspect that a fetish for girls that prefer a cut cock is probably a response to wounded pride more than anything. It's kind of funny, but it sounds like the same thing lead yourselves to this path, though it would appear that the specifics were different.